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Kathryn este căsătorită de peste 24 de ani cu Bill Baxter. Ei au patru El a zis, ' Fiica, Eu am chemat această femeie la 30 de ani să predice. Cuvântul Meu si. balzac and pdf. Balzac is a FiÈ™ier:spicesinlaris.ml | Lang Wiki | FANDOM. "Cognitive Mapping" by Fredric Jameson [pdf] - rainer rilling. Femeile şi bărbaţii trăiesc multe experienţe diferite, alături de experienţele c o m u n e. A d e s e a In R o m â n i a, abia în anii '30 ai secolului X X. Calypso.

Cum ai vrea s rmn toat viaa cu aceeai persoan, n societatea zappingului generalizat? De ce ar fi cruat sentimentul dragostei de schizofrenia general? Cstoria este ca i cum ai mnca la toate mesele caviar: o indigestie cauzat de fptura adorat pn la ngreoare. Hai, mai ia puin, da? Nu mai poi? Totui, cu puin timp n urm, i se prea delicios, ce te-a apucat? Fir-ai tu s fii de puti afurisit!

Un cercettor american tocmai a demonstrat c infidelitatea este biologic. Dup acest savant renumit, infidelitatea este o strategie genetic menit s favorizeze supravieuirea speciei. V imaginai o scen casnic: Iubita mea, nu te-am nelat de plcere: era pentru supravieuirea speciei, i dai seama? Poate c pe tine te las rece, dar trebuie s se ocupe cineva de supravieuirea speciei!

Dac i nchipui c m amuz chestia asta! A schimba canalul la televizor. Nu o s m satur n veci: cnd mi place o fat, vreau s m ndrgostesc de ea; cnd sunt ndrgostit de ea, vreau s-o srut; cnd o srut, vreau s m culc cu ea; cnd m culc cu ea, vreau s trim mpreun ntr-un apartament mobilat; cnd trim mpreun ntr-un apartament mobilat, vreau s m nsor cu ea; dup ce m nsor cu ea, ntlnesc o alt fat care mi place.

Brbatul este un animal nesatisfcut, care ezit ntre mai multe frustrri. Dac femeile ar fi mechere, l-ar refuza, ca s alerge dup ele toat viaa. Eti la fel de fericit s te ntorci acas pentru a regsi aceeai persoan care te ateapt? Cnd i zici te iubesc", crezi ntotdeauna chestia asta? Va veni n mod fatal un moment n care te vei czni s-o faci. La mine, declicul a fost chestia cu rasul. M rdeam n fiecare sear, ca s n-o nep pe Anne noaptea, cnd o srutam.

Credeam c nu e ceva grav, c ea n-o s-i dea seama. De fapt, asta nsemna c n-o mai iubeam. Cnd divorezi, cumperi ntotdeauna Desprirea de Dan Franck. Prima scen este emoionant: n timpul unei reprezentaii de teatru, brbatul i d seama c soia nu-l mai iubete, pentru c i trage mna din a lui.

El ncearc s i-o apuce din nou, ns ea o trage iar.

Eu mi spuneam: ce scrb! De ce atta cruzime? Totui, nu e marea cu sarea s-i lai mna n mna lui brbat-tu, ce dracu'! Pn n ziua n care mi s-a ntmplat acelai lucru. Am nceput s resping mereu mna lui Anne. Ea m lua cu drglenie de mn sau de bra ori i lsa mna pe coapsa mea, cnd ne uitam la televizor, iar eu ce vedeam?

O mn moale, albicioas, de consistena unei mnui Mappa. M nfioram de dezgust. Parc ar fi pus pe mine o caracati. M simeam vinovat: cum, Doamne iart-m, ajunsesem pn aici? M transformasem n scrba aia din cartea lui Dan Franck. Ea insista s-i amestece degetele cu ale mele. Eu m sileam, fr succes, s-mi stpnesc o strmbtur. M ridicam cu o sritur, chipurile ca s m duc s m uurez, dar n realitate numai ca s fug de aceast mn. Apoi m ntorceam, cuprins de remucri, i priveam mna pe care o iubisem.

Mna ei, pe care i-o cerusem n faa lui Dumnezeu.

Mna ei, pentru care, cu trei ani n urm, mi-a fi dat viaa s-o pot ine aa. Dragostea ia sfrit atunci cnd nu te mai poi ntoarce napoi. Aa i dai seama: apa a curs pe sub poduri2, nenelegerea domnete; v-ai desprit fr ca mcar s observai.

De ce faci mutra asta? Se vede c treaba asta i-a fcut efectul: tipul a ters-o. Ca urmare, peste tot, pe unde apar, servesc replica asta. Cum m ntreab cineva de ce sunt trist, cum i-o trntesc, pe nepus mas: Pentru c dragostea dureaz trei ani. Gsesc c e o chestie de un ic nebun. Cu timpul, mi-am zis c poate ar fi bun ca titlu de carte. Dragostea dureaz trei ani. Mrturisete c, n sinea ta, tii prea bine c este adevrat, chiar dac eti cstorit de patruzeci de ani.

Vezi prea bine la ce ai renunat; n ce moment ai abdicat.

Ziua fatidic n care ai ncetat s te mai temi. Nu e plcut s nelegi c dragostea dureaz trei ani; este ca o scamatorie ratat sau ca ritul detepttorului n toiul unui vis erotic. Dar trebuie s spulberi minciuna despre dragostea etern, baza societii noastre, fauritoarea nenorocirii oamenilor. Dup trei ani, un cuplu trebuie s se despart, s se sinucid ori s fac copii, astea sunt cele trei moduri de a-i confirma sfritul.

Ni se spune deseori c, dup o vreme, pasiunea se transform n altceva", mai puternic i mai frumos. C acest altceva" este Dragostea cu D" mare, un sentiment, cu siguran, mai puin excitant, dar, totodat, mai puin imatur. A vrea s fiu foarte clar: acest altceva" m calc pe nervi i, dac asta e Dragostea, atunci le-o las puturoilor, descurajailor, oamenilor copi" care se blcesc n confortul lor sentimental, n ceea ce m privete, dragostea are un d" mic, dar elanuri mari; nu dureaz ea prea mult, dar, cel puin cnd este aici, se simte.

Altceva-ui" la al lor, n care ar vrea ei s transforme dragostea, pare a fi o teorie inventat pentru mica lor satisfacie, pentru a se autoliniti trmbind c altceva mai bun nu exist. Sfrit de petrecere apocaliptic. Trebuie s termin odat cu nodul sta din stomac.

Pe la cinci dimineaa, i telefonez lui Adeline H. Am numrul ei de acas. Rspunde chiar ea: Alo? Cine e la telefon?

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Am trezit-o din somn. De ce n-o fi pus robotul? Nu tiu ce s-i spun. Scuz-m c te-am sculat Stnd jos, nemicat, cu capul n mini, ovi ntre cutia cu Lexomil i treang: de ce nu amndou?

N-am funie, dar mai multe cravate Paul Smith, legate una de alta, ar fi numai bune. Note: i Flirting with disaster engl. Cochetnd cu dezastrul. Croitorii englezi aleg ntotdeauna materiale foarte rezistente. Am fcut bine c am nchiriat un apartament cu grinzi aparente.

Este de-ajuns s te urci pe scaunul sta de aici, uite aa, pe urm s bei un pahar de Coca-Cola care conine anxioliticele pisate. Dup care, i treci capul prin la i, din momentul n care adormi, nu te mai trezeti. Dragul de tine. Vrei s le placi tuturor fetelor drgue, dar un simplu divor te deprim, ar fi trebuit s te gndeti nainte la chestia asta.

Acum, nu mai am dect durerea, care s-mi in tovrie. Ce pierdere de timp: s vrei s te omori, cnd eti deja mort. Deschizi un ochi, apoi pe cellalt; durerea de east e dubl: din cauza mahmurelii, dar i a unui uria cucui n faz de dezvoltare accelerat, n mijlocul frunii. Este dup-amiaz i te simi ct se poate de caraghios, cu cravatele nclcite n jurul gtului, lungit pe jos, lng un scaun rsturnat i cu o femeie de serviciu n picioare. Am dormit mult? Sinucigaii sunt nite oameni cu adevrat insuportabili, Anne mi-a redat libertatea i uite c eu i port pic.

Am suferit c eram nchis, acum sufr c sunt liber. Carevas-zic, asta nseamn viaa de adult: s construieti castele de nisip, dup care s le calci n picioare i s repei operaia iar i iar, cnd tii prea bine c oceanul le-ar fi drmat oricum? Am pleoapele grele ca noaptea care se las. Anul sta am mbtrnit mult. Dup ce tii c eti btrn? Dup faptul c ai nevoie de trei zile ca s-i revii dup o but ca asta. Dup faptul c ratezi toate sinuciderile. Dup faptul c eti urcios cnd i ntlneti pe alii mai tineri.

Entuziasmul lor te enerveaz, iluziile lor te obosesc. Eti btrn cnd i-ai spus, cu o zi nainte, unei domnioare nscute n '76? Nemaiavnd unghii de ros, m hotrsc s ies la cin. Note: Muleta sp. Lui Anne i mie nimeni n-o s ne poat lua asta: am crezut cu toat sinceritatea n dragoste. Ne-am avntat cu capul nainte ntr-o muleta1 de beton armat. Nu rdei. Nimeni nu rde de Don Quijote, dei ataca morile de vnt ca un smucit cu clie ce era.

Mult vreme, singurul meu scop n via era s m autodistrug. Apoi, dintr-odat, mi-a venit cheful s fiu fericit. E groaznic, mi-e ruine, iertai-m: ntr-o zi, m-a ncercat vulgara ispit a fericirii.

Dar, dup aceea, am aflat c asta era cea mai bun cale de a m distruge, n fond, fr s-o fac dinadins, sunt un biat coerent. Nu tiu de ce oi fi acceptat atunci s iau cina la Jean-Geor-ges. Pentru c mie nu mi-e niciodat foame, ntotdeauna mi-am fcut un titlu de onoare din a atepta smi fie foame pentru ca s mnnc.

Aa este elegant: s mnnci cnd i-e foame, s bei cnd i-e sete, s regulezi cnd i se scoal. Dar, bine, n-o s atept pn mor de inaniie ca s m ntlnesc cu frtaii. Probabil c Jean-Georges iar o fi invitat nelipsita gac de icnii sublimi, prietenii mei cei mai buni. Niciunul n-o s vorbeasc despre problemele lui, pentru c fiecare tie c ceilali au tot attea. O s schimbe subiectul ca s amgeasc disperarea.

Acas la Jean-Georges este doar el singur. Vrea s m asculte. M ia de guler i m zglie de parc a fi automatul unei parcri, care nu nregistreaz data i ora pe tichet, dup ce a nghiit moneda de zece mangoi. Asear te-am ntrebat de ce aveai mutra aia de un cot i mi-ai rspuns c dragostea dureaz trei ani. Pi, bine, tu m iei la mito sau ce naiba? Te trezeti n cruliile alea ale tale? Aa c, acum, gata cu tmpeniile, ai de gnd s vorbeti sau ce mama dracului? Altfel, eu la ce-oi mai fi bun?

M prefac c sunt rcit, ca s m pot smiorci. Bigui: A Cine e? O cunosc? Carevaszic, Marc i Alice s-au cstorit acum trei ani. Necazul e c nu s-au cstorit unul cu cellalt. Marc s-a nsurat cu Anne, iar Alice s-a mritat cu Antoine Aa e viaa: are grij s complice ntotdeauna lucrurile - ori noi suntem ia care caut complicaiile?

Poza lui Alice e aia pe care a descoperit-o Anne la Rio. Un ncnttor Polaroid cu Alice n bikini, pe o plaj italieneasc de lng Roma. La Fregene, ca s fiu mai precis.

Alice i cu mine am avut o legtur extraconjugal". Aa sunt numite, n zilele noastre, cele mai frumoase pasiuni romantice. Oamenii mor de dragoste, n fiecare zi, pentru legturi ex-traconjugale". Deseori, v ntlnii pe strad cu femei care nu v impresioneaz prin nimic, pentru c i ascund n strfundul lor secretele; ns, uneori, le vei vedea plngnd fr niciun rost, n faa unui serial de doi bani, sau schind un surs magnific, n metrou, i atunci o s v dai seama ce vreau s spun.

Adesea, situaia este neechilibrat: o femeie celibatar iubete un brbat nsurat, iar el nu vrea s-i lase nevasta; e ceva ngrozitor, abject, banal, n ceea ce ne privete, cnd ne-am ntlnit, eram cstorii i unul, i cellalt. Numai c, de data asta, eu am fost primul care a cedat: eu divorez, n timp ce Alice n-are nici cea mai vag intenie.

De ce i-ar prsi brbatul pentru un icnit care strig n dreapta i n stnga c dragostea dureaz trei ani? Ar trebui s-i spun c nu cred cu adevrat chestia asta, dar a mini.

Iar eu m-am sturat s mint. M-am sturat de viaa mea dubl. Poligamia este pe deplin legal n Frana: e de-ajuns s fii nzestrat cu darul de a mini.

Nu-i nicio greutate s ai mai multe femei. Ai nevoie doar de puin imaginaie i de mult organizare. Cunosc o droaie de tipi care au un adevrat harem, chiar n Frana, chiar n Pentru ca s faci aa ceva, trebuie s fii diplomat i ipocrit, ceea ce este cam acelai lucru. Dar mie mi-e lehamite. Nu mai pot. Mi-e de-ajuns c sunt schizofrenic n viaa profesional, refuz s fiu aa ceva i n viaa sentimental.

Cred c ar fi frumos ca, mcar o dat, s nu fac dect un singur lucru n acelai timp. Rezultatul: sunt din nou singur. Dragostea este o catastrof magnific: s tii c te ndrepi cu toat viteza spre un zid i totui s accelerezi; s alergi ctre pierzanie, cu zmbetul pe buze; s atepi, plin de curiozitate, clipa cnd se va alege praful de toate.

Dragostea este singura decepie programat, singura nenorocire previzibil, pe care o vrei mereu i mereu. Asta i-am spus lui Alice, nainte de-a o ruga zadarnic n genunchi s plece cu mine. Dragostea cea mai puternic este cea nemprtit. A fi preferat s nu tiu, dar asta e realitatea: nimic nu e mai ru dect s iubeti pe cineva care nu te iubete i, n acelai timp, este cel mai frumos lucru care mi s-a ntmplat vreodat.

S iubeti pe cineva care te iubete este narcisism. S iubeti pe cineva care nu te iubete, asta da, e dragoste. Cutam o ncercare, o experien, o ntlnire cu mine nsumi care s m poat transforma: din pcate, dorina mi-a fost ndeplinit dincolo de ateptri. Iubesc o fat care nu m iubete i nu o mai iubesc pe cea care m iubete. M folosesc de femei pentru ca s m detest pe mine nsumi. Fan-Chiang a ntrebat: Ce este dragostea?

Maestrul a spus: S pui mai mult pre pe efort dect pe recompens, asta este dragostea. Cum a aflat Alice c m-a lsat nevasta, cum s-a speriat i a dat napoi. Sunt ca o amrt de amantcrampon care ateapt ca tipul ei nsurat s-i aduc aminte de curiorul ei. Eu, cel cruia nu-i plceau dect bulevardele largi, iat-m n back street"1. O singur ntrebare m scie nencetat i mi rezum ntreaga existen: ce e mai ru, s faci dragoste fr s iubeti sau s iubeti fr s faci dragoste?

Am impresia c sunt ca Milou, cnd este apucat de crizele de contiin, avnd ntro parte ngeraul, care i spune s fac lucruri bune, i n cealalt mini-demonul, care l ndeamn s fac rele. Eu am un ngera care vrea s m ntorc la nevasta mea i un drcuor care mi sugereaz s m culc cu Alice, n capul meu este un permanent talk-show, n direct, la care iau parte ei doi.

A fi preferat ca dracul smi porunceasc s-o regulez pe nevast-mea. Intrarea lui Alice n scen m-a surprins de parc una dintre cele trei Dame nosrime1 ar fi aterizat pe platoul lui Helene i bieii2.

Ca s-o descriu pe Alice, n-am s-o iau pe ocolite: este un stru. Ca i aceast pasre alergtoare, este nalt, slbatic i se ascunde cum simte o primejdie. Interminabilele ei picioare suple n numr de dou suport un bust senzual, dotat cu fructe arogante n acelai numr. Pletele lungi, negre i drepte ncununeaz un chip pe care dei este blnd citeti vioiciunea. Trupul lui Alice pare s fi fost conceput exclusiv pentru a destabiliza brbaii cumini i cstorii, care nu voiau nimic sau care nu voiau altceva de la ea.

Asta este singura deosebire dintre ea i stru pe lng aceea c Alice nu face ou de un kil. Note: Back street engl. Parafraz dup pelicula Droles de Drame Marcel Carne, A rulat i n Romnia. Familia este o chestie penibil chiar i cnd e a ta, darmite cnd e a soului De altfel, eu fusesem cel care susinuse c, de bun seam, din locul n care se afla acum, Mama Mare n-o s-i observe absena.

Nu tiu, pesemne simeam c avea s mi se ntmple ceva. Toat biserica era cu ochii pe bunicul, s vad dac o s plng. Dar avea el, popa, un pil: a evocat cei cincizeci de ani de csnicie ai lui Tata Mare cu Mama Mare.

Ochii bunicului meu totui colonel n retragere s-au nroit. Cnd i-a curs prima lacrim, parc ar fi dat semnalul de pornire. Toat familia a deschis robinetele, s-a pus pe suspinat, s-a adunat roat, privind la sicriu.

Nu putea s-mi intre n cap c Mama Mare era nuntru. A trebuit s moar ca s-mi dau seama ct de tare ineam la ea. Fir-ar s fie! Cnd nu-i prseam eu pe cei pe care i iubeam, mureau ei.

Eugénie Grandet. Femeia la treizeci de ani

M-am pus, fr nicio reinere, pe plns, cci sunt biat sensibil. Cnd mi s-au limpezit ochii, am zrit o brunet frumoas, care m observa. Alice m vzuse dnd ap la oareci.

Nu tiu dac a fost de vin emoia sau prezena ei ce contrasta cu locul, dar am simit o puternic atracie pentru aceast misterioas apariie n pulover negru, mulat pe trup.

Frederic BEIGBEDER, DRAGOSTEA DUREAZĂ 3 ANI

Mai trziu, Alice mi-a mrturisit c i se pruse c sunt foarte frumos: s punem aceast eroare de apreciere pe seama instinctului ei matern.

Esenialul e c atracia era reciproc, simea nevoia s m consoleze, era clar. Aceast ntlnire m-a nvat c cel mai bun lucru pe care l poi face la o nmormntare este s te ndrgosteti. Ea era prieten cu una dintre verioarele mele. Mi l-a prezentat pe Antoine, soul ei, foarte simpatic, poate chiar prea simpatic, n timp ce m pupa pe obrajii uzi de lacrimi, ea a neles c am neles c a vzut c am vzut c s-a uitat la mine aa cum s-a uitat. O s-mi amintesc mereu primul lucru pe care i l-am spus: mi place mult structura osoas a chipului tu.

Am avut rgazul s-o privesc cu de-amnuntul. O tnr femeie de 27 de ani, pur i simplu frumoas. Gene tremurtoare. Rs al gurii bosumflate, care i face inima s tresalte n cuca toracic dintr-odat prea strmt.

Minune a privirilor fugare, a prului despletit, a curbei alelor, a dinilor sclipitori. Mowgli Cardinale n Cartea Ghepardului. Betty Page desfurat pe un metru aptezeci i apte. O nebun care te umple de linite.

O provocatoare calm, de o discreie impudic. O amic, o inamic. Cum se face c n-o ntlnisem niciodat? Ce folos sa cunosc atta lume, dac fata asta nu fcea parte din ea? V-ai prins unde vreau s ajung da, sfrcurile i se ntriser sub puloverul negru, mulat pe ea. Avea sni plini de sensibilitate.

Chipul i era de o puritate care i dezminea trupul senzual. Exact tipul meu: nimic nu-mi place mai mult dect contradicia dintre un chip angelic i un trup pariv. Am criterii dihotomice.

Exact n clipa aceea am tiut c voi da orice ca s intru n viaa ei, n mintea ei, n patul ei i n toate celelalte ale ei. Cunoti ara Bascilor? Nu, dar pare a fi drgu. Nu e drgu, e frumoas. Ce pcat c sunt cstorit, i tu la fel, altfel am fi putut ntemeia o familie, ntr-o ferm din regiunea aia. Cu oi?

Cu oi, evident. Eu nu sunt stru, sunt paratrsnet. Dac te apuci s-mi citeti i gndurile, unde o s ajungem? Dup plecarea ei, am rtcit, ncntat i nepstor, prin Guethary, satul lui PaulJean Toulet i paradisul copilriei mele. M-am plimbat, proaspt i zglobiu, cnd, de fapt, detest plimbrile dar nimeni nu a fost ngrijorat din pricina asta: dup o nmormntare, oamenii fac ntotdeauna chestii absurde , m-am preumblat prin faa mrii, observnd fiecare stnc, fiecare val, fiecare grunte de nisip, mi simeam inima dnd pe dinafar.

Tot cerul era al meu. Coasta basc mi purta mai mult noroc dect golful Rio. Le-am zmbit norilor atipii n cer i Mamei Mari, care numi purta pic pentru chestia asta. Nu poi dori ceea ce ai, e mpotriva naturii. De aia csniciile frumoase sunt fcute ndri de orice necunoscut care se nfiineaz. Chiar dac te-ai nsurat cu cea mai drgu fat cu putin, va exista ntotdeauna o necunoscut nou care va intra n viaa ta fr s bat la u i va avea efectul unui afrodiziac superputer-nic.

Or, pentru a complica lucrurile, Alice nu era orice necunoscut. Ea purta un pulover negru, mulat pe trup. Non-constructive family values include: Ule and Kuhar, The system approach treats family values as a relationship of three groups of values: A special binding role among other family values is played by children who are the main value of the family; 3 values of kinship embrace: In the attitudes and minds of young people, the family values, on the one hand, summarize the social experience of past and present, and on the other hand — create a prototype of the future family, predict the indicators of demographic behavior and development in the future.

Family values of young people are forming not spontaneously, but under the influence of many factors Figure 1. Figure 1 Factors influencing the formation of family values in youth There are several scientific theories about the impact of the social situation on the family values of young people: According to this concept, the formation of family values in young people occurs in the conflict between the individual and social values, with the inevitable impact of the social situation; 2 the modernization approach asserts that there is a transformation of the family values of young people within the change from the traditional type of family to the modern one, and as a whole it has a positive orientation.

Current trends in the family values of young people respond to the influence of the social situation and should not be interpreted unambiguously as a deviation from the norm.

They are rather signs of significant and irreversible evolutionary shifts in the family institution itself; 3 the concept of dependence.

According to this concept, young people are in a more difficult financial situation; they need state and parental support; they usually do not have housing; and they have increased requests for spiritual development. The youth is in the midst of current socio-demographic reality of serving a significant factor in the formation of family value orientations, behaviors and life priorities of the young generation.

The influence of socio-demographic situation on family values of young people manifests firstly in increasing the age of marriage. Data indicate that from to , the age of marriage increased for men from Fourthly, among young people, there is a setting for late delivery Kurakina, Fifthly, the problematic social situation negatively affects the level of mortality among young people. The department of social work N. The problem of the study was to identify the impact of current socio- demographic situation in Russia on the formation of family values of youth, and the role of social work in this process.

The purpose of the study was to explore the characteristics of the impact of current socio-demographic situation in Russia on the formation of family values of young people, and to highlight the perspectives and recommendations of preparation of youth for marriage and family life in the aspect of social work areas.

The degree of scientific knowledge of the topic and the problems of research. Multidimensional and multidisciplinary nature of the impact of current socio- demographic situation in Russia on the formation of family values of youth, and the role of social work in this process determine the variety of used scientific sources.

Thus, the impact of current socio-demographic situation in Russia on the modern youth got its coverage in the writings of M. Gorshkov Gorshkov, , Yu.

Zubok Zubok, , M. Ivliev Ivliev, , G. Klimantova Klimantova, , E. Kurakina Kurakina, , E. Maslukova Masliukova, , G. Fomchenkova Fomchenkova, , E. Shcherbakova Scherbakova, , and others.

The formation of family values and orientations of young people occurs in the context of the transformation of the family institution. The study reveals the depth of contradictions in modern family- marriage sphere of society, manifested both in crisis and in evolutionary trends of development of family values and relations. The following works should be noted: Antonov Antonov, , T.

Afanasyeva Afanasieva, , N. Divitsyna Divitsyna, , M. Matskovsky Matskovsky, , L. Savinov Savinov, and others. According to some authors, the issues of family manners, sexual behavior, and marital status of youth are not isolated and largely determine the demographic structure of the whole family, prospects of its development, the nature of tasks and problems that it has to solve.

We should note the works of the following scholars: Giddens Giddens, , V. Lisowsky Lisovsky, , V. Sysenko Sysenko, and others. The works of these scientists form the scientific reference for further conceptualization and development of topical problems in the field of sociology of youth. Socio-demographic situation actualizes the importance of conducting social work with young people, in order to promote constructive family values.

The role of social worker in the formation of family values of young people is particularly significant when parents are unable to prepare young people constructively for marriage and family life. Even if the experience of family life of parents and family values are positive for children, the help of social worker may not be superfluous. It will help to complement and reinforce the positive aspects of premarital preparation from the point of view of objective reality and scientific-research positions of such authors as S.

Grigoriev Grigoriev, , N. Basov Basov, , E. Kholostova Kholostova, , T. Solovyova Solovyova, and others. It should be noted that there is a disagreement among scholars concerning the place of family values in the value system of youth. A number of studies on youth and its priorities demonstrate a sufficiently high value of family in the value system of young Russians.

The researchers also talk about the paradoxes in the value consciousness of the Russian youth as the high value of family in the youth environment combines with the admissibility of prostitution, approval of physical intimacy for a fee, arranged marriages, etc. Family values of youth in modern socio-demographic situation in Russia are considered during the analysis of the works of T. Gurko Gurko, , I. Dementieva Dementieva, , V. Zhukov Zhukov, , D. Currently, the attention of scientists is attracted to the problematic issues of premarital preparation and questions of teaching young people constructive family values.

However, this direction is still poorly developed; it needs improvement and more serious attitude of the state structures. Prospects and recommendations for the preparation of young people for marriage and family life in the aspect of social work areas under conditions of modern socio-demographic situation in Russia are considered in the analysis of works of E. Zritneva Zritneva, , I. Dubrovina Dubrovina, , N.

Lagoyda Lagoyda, , S. Kovalev Kovalev, , A. Makarenko Makarenko, , D. Isaev Isaev, , and others. In this work, the authors used the results of empirical sociological research for secondary analysis devoted to problems of family values formation of youth in modern socio-demographic situation in Russia. These problems were analyzed and described by A. Kryukova Kryukova et al. Ivanenkov Ivanenkov, , L. Popova Popova, , E.

Zritneva Zritneva, In general, Russian scientists, regardless of the study area and the chosen methodology, note the inconsistency and ambiguity of the process of value dynamics in the youth environment, which is characterized by both positive and negative traits. According to S. Thus, on the one hand, the research topic is highlighted deeply enough in scientific literature this refers to the problem of youth and its values, to the problem of the demographic crisis in Russia and the factors of this phenomenon.

On the other hand, the issues of family values and orientation of the youth, its demographic behavioral strategies, conditions and factors of their formation and implementation have not received conceptual studies on the sociological level.

In addition, the problem of family values and orientations in the context of demographic development of Russian society has not received the conceptual study in a comprehensive way. However, the accumulated potential in the sociology and demography of the family, sociology of youth, and sociology of spiritual life is very wide and it is impossible to reach the level of solving the research problem without extensive analysis.

The conducted analysis of the degree of scientific elaboration of the research problem allows making a conclusion about the multiplicity of the raised issue; its high degree of inconsistency and ambiguity from the position of both the presented research directions and perspectives of value of youth development, and the functioning of the family institution, a transformation of which generates different variants of implementation of family strategies and styles.

We should note the significance of the research problem not only for Russia, but also for world practice. Economic and social changes radically affect young people, their values and attitudes, and transform their experience not only in Russia but also in many parts of the world.

Foreign scientists noted that modern youth faces a wider range of uncertainty and problems than in any previous era Jeffrey and McDowell, In foreign literature, the problem of social uncertainty and confusion of youth is associated: There is a perception that young people seek for life in modern cities — large settlements, administrative by developed, industrial and cultural centers providing a great opportunity of premarital search for young people.

However, urban life is often related to the difficulties of adapting to not quite favorable socio-economic conditions. Many young people today express their values and preferences that are attached to the urban environment, which indicates the existence of an urban ethos of youth, including a certain life style, culture, and hierarchy of values Baeck, The needs in conducting social work with young people are also covered in the foreign scientific works McCullagh, ; Stoesz, In addition, the scientific literature allocates global trends of family that directly affect family values of young people, for example: In the process of transition to adult life, an example of family relationships is of special importance to an individual Myklebust and Solvang, Thus, young people from wealthy families that are continuously married are more committed to family values and less likely to engage in a risky sexual behavior Simons et al.

Aims of the study: To characterize the problems of youth in modern socio-demographic situation in Russia; 2. To justify the formation of family values of youth in modern socio- demographic situation in Russia, in the light of social work approach; 3. To analyze the impact of current socio-demographic situation in Russia on the formation of family values of youth, and the role of social work in this process by the example of Saransk city ; 4.

To examine the family values of the youth in the conditions of modern socio-demographic situation in Russia, according to the results of a sociological survey by the example of Saransk city ; 5. To highlight the perspectives and recommendations of preparation of youth to marriage and family life, in the aspect of social work areas in the context of modern socio-demographic situation in Russia.

Basic research tools — questionnaire of the sociological survey developed in accordance with the problem, purpose and aims of the study.

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The survey questionnaire included 27 questions including ones about the reproductive attitudes of young people, the estimated age of marriage, the motivation for future marriage, and family relations.

Important questions were those helping to clarify the topics of pre-marital training of young people, including roles of the family, the state, and qualified specialists; and the degree of young people readiness for fulfilling a number of family roles and functions. The chronological scope of the research — January—March The territorial scope of the study — Saransk city.

When conducting this research, the authors applied three groups of research methods as methodological framework: The general totality of coverage included the total number of Saransk youth — , thousand people Table no. Table no. According to gender, the respondents were distributed as follows, 85 girls and 59 boys. The sample was random. The respondents were students of secondary schools of the Saransk city. Criteria for the respondents selection for a sociological survey: The sample is of a stratified type with steps organization according to the territorial principle.

At the last stage of selection, a quota sample was used. As quota attributes, we used such categories as gender, age, and territory of residence. Firstly, parent family, social values and socio-demographic situation in the country are the dominant factors affecting the formation of family values of young people. For Let us refer to Table no.

We should note the factors that influence the future of the family fortune, in the opinion of the youth Figure 4. According to youth attitudes, the variety of social threats in the modern family could be mastered only by communicating and equally sharing the responsibilities between the spouses with respect to both the family budget replenishment and the children upbringing.

Thirdly, the installation of creative, constructive family values dominates among young people, contributing to the achievement of universal values and those family values, which are considered to be common in this culture: Let us refer to the Table no.

Fourthly, the lack of knowledge of young people about family culture gives rise to conflict in family orientations, reflecting the contradictions between knowledge and behaviors. Therefore, there is a demand for attention of specialists to the problem. According to the study results, the problematic issues, on which young people have absent or superficial knowledge are as follows: The social survey showed that the procreation of children is included in primary value of youth.

However, the bulk of respondents focused on one child It should be noted that procreation is not geared to young people with large families. Raising children in an atmosphere of love is not the root cause of creating a family based on legal marriage. The distribution of opinions of respondents to the question concerning the motive for childbirth is of particular interest Figure 5. The allocated value orientations of youth in the sphere of family and family relations in the course of the sociological questionnaire are very similar to the values of young people highlighted by several authors in the post-Soviet period Table no.

In its course, the methodological research matrix of family values and orientations of the Russian youth was tested in the conditions of demographic crisis and the prospects for exit. Scientific novelty of research consists in that: This fact was the rationale for the conclusion about the necessity of family culture formation among the Russian youth through premarital training of young people in social work.

It is proved that the demographic crisis as a term commonly used in the modern world in relation to the Russian reality has very clear parameters reflected in the key demographic trends related to the process of depopulation.

Despite the fact that the pace of fertility decline has halted in recent years, it gave reason for optimism regarding the demographic reality among politicians and public figures. At the same time, scientists critically evaluate the demographic situation of the Russian society and emphasize the moral component of the demographic crisis, although this view is not the only one. Among the main sources of demographic crisis, in addition to spiritual ill- being of Russian society, scientists name: Accordingly, depending on the choice of the demographic crisis source, researchers proposed measures to address demographic challenges: However, Russia could not solve this problem without comprehensive measures to exit the demographic crisis.

It is proved that family values and orientations of young people are formed quite chaotically in terms of destruction of the socialization system and lack of social control. However, understanding of the demographic prospects of Russia depends on how science is armed with knowledge about the peculiarities of family values formation in youth. This forms the scientific relevance of this study, which will present an attempt to solve the problem of contradictions on sociological level in the subject area, in the framework of adequate family-demographic sector of society.

Currently, the main task of the family values formation of youth in modern socio-demographic situation in Russia in the aspect of social work is to identify the areas of informational, educational and social outreach to strengthen family values. This allows us to come to a deeper understanding of demographic processes, the possibilities of their adjustments through the improvement of measures and technologies of demographic policy in the framework of the existing concept.

Presented and analyzed results of the research give the opportunity to formulate key messages: Formation of family values among young people is a process, which aims to nurture positive attitudes to family and marriage, preparing young people for marriage and solving problems of a young family.

It is important to realize that preparing young people for family life is as important as the preparation for professional activity, preparation for social activities, and adaptation to life in society. The main sources of knowledge and actors engaged in premarital training today are print publications, movies and TV shows mostly of entertainment nature, not educational , conversations with parents and friends. Accordingly, there is nothing like a special, systematic training of youth for marriage and family life today.

Unfortunately, in the modern family there is a weakening of the socio- psychological effect of commonality, which accelerates the break in continuity between generations. In these circumstances, the youth acquires values mostly independently. Cei frumosi si blestemati.

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